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发表于 2020-7-14 10:44:49 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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Confession of a Self-Kibitzer


Michal Nowosadzki 11 hours ago


EDITOR'S NOTE: Though Mr. Nowosadzki is not a native English speaker, Bridge Winners made an exception to its normal policy of editing featured articles to present Mr. Nowosadzki's statement in his own words.




Hello everyone. I have something terrible to confess. I’ve cheated. I did some self - kibitzing. Well, a lot of self - kibitzing to be honest. Most of you that know me are probably shocked right now. I have to say I am shocked by myself as well. I will start with apologizing to everybody. I would like especially to apologize to my partner and all teammates. They had no idea what was going on. it was me and me only. I am sorry. In particular I want to apologize to Josef, who is putting his whole heart into the game and by my actions I have also exposed his name into some harm. I want to apologize to all the people that gave me support in 4333 case and in general to all the people and friends who believed in me. You put your trust in me. I let you down really badly. I cheated you. I lied to you. I am sorry. Obviously I want to apologize to all the opponents that I’ve cheated. Special apology also goes to Peter Fredin. Most of you don't know that, but Peter apologized to me privately after accusing me of cheating. It turned out that it should be the opposite. Peter, you were right about me and I am truly sorry. Finally I want to apologize to all the bridge enthusiasts for spoiling the integrity of our beautiful game. I hope I did not miss anyone.


I feel really bad for what I did. It was not only very bad but also extremely stupid. I might say it was one of the most moronic things I did in my whole life. That fact should not really matter - cheating is awful by itself, but I could gain so little by doing that and lose so much (and I probably will) that it made no sense at all. I want to be absolutely clear that I find no excuse for my actions. Therefore the purpose of everything that is written below is not to make myself look less bad, but to give you some details and maybe make things a little better if possible.


It first happened in march, I think near the end of the month. I was really tired in the evening. I have a 7 months old daughter, so I am not getting too much sleep. I also had to take care of her at the time. So the dog was barking, the baby was crying, I was barely conscious at the moment, so I said to myself: ok, lets see all the hands to avoid any stupid mistakes. I will play in a "normal” way anyway. After the match I was like: you idiot, what are you doing?! First of all you are cheating people that know you and trust you (some of them call you a friend) and above of that you are risking your good name and maybe your career for what?! Stop it right now! Well, not exactly. It happened again. If you ask me why I can not give you a clear reason. Maybe because it was so easy and playing this way was so easy. I don’t know. I was always thinking of myself as a good guy. I am still trying to think that I am a good guy that has done a wrong thing, but the problem is that good guys usually do the right things. Anyway at some point it became to be like a drug and I was an addict. I felt bad about it. I tried to stop. Sometimes I did put my phone away just not to do it, but after some boards I took it anyway. It took me almost three months to finally wake up. Three months to late. I stopped it completely and definitely like a month ago. I am done with this and this will never happen again. The only good thing about all this is that I stopped by myself. Maybe it will make some difference at least to some of you. I did not "watch” all the time but It was happening regularly during this whole period of time. Obviously I have made some plays which I might not/probably won’t/very likely won’t or for sure won’t find if not knowing all the cards. And obviously those plays changed the outcome of some matches, of which at least a few were knockouts. Some of these plays were really "brilliant”. Of course I was trying to be smart and avoid those kinds of plays but apparently I fell into some kind of an illusion and my judgement was not right. Not that it would change anything if I succeed in that matter. Here we are coming to the point that the fact that no one had any idea is not 100% true. After some of these brilliant plays Jacek began to suspect something. He asked me like at least ten times if I am knowing the hands and every time I lied to him that I do not. We are a partnership for eight years. We’ve been through a lot together. He trusted me. He believed me. He put my word above his feeling, This time he was wrong. I let him down. Once again: sorry Partner. One thing I can assure you of, that I and we never cheated anyone in live bridge. While you don’t have to believe a cheater that already lied to you, you can ask him. He is the one you can trust. We have won a lot together. The fact that even a single person might right now question a fairness of our achievements makes what I did even more stupid.


I don’t know if I would get caught if I won’t confess. It is likely that at some point someone will examine the boards or the other kind of data and find out, but i might as well get away with it. Doesn’t matter right now. I just cannot keep it inside me anymore. I want to sleep at night again. Even if I got hammered here, which I deserve.


It is not my call to apply the proper punishment and actions to make it up a little to a bridge community but I have some ideas:


Assuming that anyone would still like to play with me I can offer myself to play some decent number of boards, f.e. 500, either with some juniors or people that will pay some money for it, which would go to some kind of charity. Optionally I can double the amount or pay some kind of fixed amount.


For sure I should take some time off. Again it is not me to decide how long it should be. For the very moment I have excluded myself from this week tournament we were supposed to play. That seemed obvious.


I hope one day I will be forgiven.


That was about me. Now I would like to write some words about cheating in online bridge in general. It doesn’t at all change the view of what I did but I know (or maybe I should write I am 99% sure) that I am not the only one. I have like ten names in my head. The names of the guys that made many suspicious plays and most of them were successful. (that’s kind of funny that I’ve noticed their actions while at the same time I thought that mine are not suspicious at all). Of course I am not going to write a single name here but I think if you ask ten or twenty ALT or OCBL "regulars”, they will mostly come up with the same names. So guys you should know you were not unnoticed. I guess some of you maybe stopped on the way. I am not a sheriff here. I am a bad guy. But if I were you I would strongly consider to confess. Or if for any reason you don’t want to, at least stop doing what you are doing. I know some of you better, some a little worse, but my opinion is that none of you would even think of cheating in a live bridge. This online thing is going to last at least for some time, whether we like it or not. We have made a big mess. Let’s try to clean it up and start over. Let’s try to make this thing as close to a real game as possible. For myself and for all of you: I hope it is not too late.

http://bridgewinners.com/article/view/confession-of-a-self-kibitzer/

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以下文字来自线上软件翻译。




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发表于 2020-7-14 18:25:30 | 显示全部楼层
网上打牌也这么干?!哈哈,看样,桥牌真没乐趣了。如同竞技场上的兴奋剂
发表于 2020-7-15 09:56:33 | 显示全部楼层
职业牌手追求结果和高额利益,业余爱好者追求过程和娱乐交流。一旦竞赛和金钱利益挂上钩,失去道德底线,作弊毒瘤会无限滋生漫延。就像竟技体育中的兴奋剂,铤而走险,屡禁不止。
发表于 2020-7-17 13:54:11 | 显示全部楼层
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桥牌没有这种说法  发表于 2020-7-18 23:00
发表于 2020-7-18 22:54:12 | 显示全部楼层
大家好。我有件可怕的事要坦白。我作弊了。我在打牌的时候偷窺其他人的牌了。不是一次,是很多次。认识我的大多数人现在可能都很震惊。我不得不说我自己的所作所为也很震惊。我先向大家道歉。我要特别向我的搭档和所有队友道歉。他们不知道发生了什么事,只有我自己知道。我很抱歉。我特别想向拍档约瑟夫道歉,他正全心投入比赛,我的行为也让他的名字受到了一些伤害。我要向所有支持我的人,以及所有相信我的人和朋友们道歉。你们信任我,但我让你失望了,我骗了你们我真的很抱歉。很明显,我想向所有对手道歉。彼得·弗雷丁也要特别致歉。你们大多数人不知道,但彼得在指责我作弊后私下向我道歉。彼得,你不用道歉,你说得对,我真的错了。最后,我要向所有桥牌爱好者道歉,因为他们破坏了这个美丽的游戏。我真诚向所有人道歉。

我真的为我的所作所为感到难过。这不仅非常糟糕,而且非常愚蠢。我可以说这是我一生中做过的最愚蠢的事情之一。这个事实其实并不重要——作弊本身就很可怕,但这样做我可能得不到什么好处,却很可能损失更多,作弊这一点真的都没有意义。我绝对清楚,我不能为我的行为找借口。因此,下面所写的一切并不是为了让自己看起来不那么糟糕,而是为了给你一些细节,如果可能的话,也许可以让事情不会变得更难看。

它第一次发生在三月份,我想大概在月底。晚上我真的很累。我有一个7个月大的女儿,因为当时我还得照顾她,所以每天我睡都得不太多。不但宝宝在哭,我家里还有一条狗,哭声加上我的爱犬狗吠声,我当时已经不太清醒,所以我对自己说:”好吧,让我们看看所有的人的牌,以避免任何愚蠢的错误。不管怎样,我都会用“正常”的方式打牌。“ 赛后我想:你这个白痴,你在干什么?!首先,你在欺骗那些认识你并信任你的人和朋友,更重要的是,你在冒着丧失名誉和事业而冒险?!马上住手!嗯,但是我又再次犯错了。如果你问我为什么这样做,也许是理由太简单了,用这种方式打牌实在太容易。我一直以为自己是个好人。我仍然试图认为我是一个做了错事的好人。不管怎么说,在某种程度上它变成了一种毒品,而我是一个瘾君子。我为此感到难过。我试着停下来。有时候我把手机收起来只是为了不去偷窺,但是在有些时候我还是把手机拿偷窺了。我花了将近三个月才醒过来。足足晚了三个月,我一个月前才完全停止这种行为。我受够自己的丑陋了,我对自己说以后再也不会这样了。我终于没有再作弊了。也许至少对你们中的一些人来说会有所不同。我不是一直在“看”,但在这段时间里,作弊还是不停地发生的。显然,因为作弊,我打成了一些牌,如果没有作弊,这些牌我是可能不会,很可能不会或者肯定不会打成。很明显,作弊改变了一些比赛的结果,其中至少有几场是淘汰赛。其中有些我打得真的很“精彩”。当然,我想采用其他打法,不想因为偷窺而改变了赛果,但结果是我做不到。面对我这些精彩的打法,雅克(Jacek)开始怀疑了。他至少问了我十次,问我是否偷窺了,每次我都骗他说我没有。我们合作八年了。我们一起经历了很多,而他一直信任我。他相信我没有骗他,但我让他失望了。再一次:对不起,搭档,但有一件事我可以向你保证,除了网络桥牌外,我从来没有作弊过。你不必相信已经对你撒谎的骗子,但这是真的。我们曾经一起赢了很多,但现在每一个人都有权质疑我们过去的胜利是否干干净净,我的所作所为实在愚蠢。

我不知道就算我不坦白我的恶行会不会被揭发。有可能在某个时候,有人会因为复牌而找出答案,但我估计我还是可以逃脱惩罚。现在没关系。我再也不能把它藏在心里了。我想晚上再好好睡一次。即使我被处罚了,我也是罪有应得的。

我愿意接受惩罚来弥补对桥牌界的伤害,这是我建议的方法:

假设还有人愿意和我一起打牌,我愿意捐出我的时间,比如500副,用来培训年轻人,或者用这些时间来与我的客户搭档打牌,然后这些钱都会捐给慈善机构,而且我会捐出等额的金额或支付某种固定金额。

当然我必须停止参加比赛一段时间,但这个时间不是我可以决定的。就在此刻,我已经退出本周的比赛。

我希望有一天我会被原谅。

这是关于我的懺悔。现在我想写一些关于网络桥牌作弊的事情。这丝毫没有改变我对我所做的一切的看法,但我知道(或者我应该写下我99%的肯定)我不是唯一一个。我脑子里大概有十个名字。那些家伙做成很多成功但可疑的牌。(这有点可笑,我注意到他们的行为,同时我认为我的行为一点也不可疑)当然,我不会在这里写一个名字,但我想如果你问十个或二十个ALT或OCBL的“常客”,他们多半会想出相同的名字。所以“伙计们”你们应该知道你们并没有被忽视。我想你们中有些人可能已经没有作弊了。我不是这里的保长,我也是个坏人。但如果我是你,我会极力考虑坦白。或者,如果因为任何原因你不想做,至少停止做你正在做的事情。我了解你们中的一些人其实不太差,当然有些人就恶劣一些,但我的乐观看法是你们中没有人会真的想到在现实比赛中作弊。不管你们同不同意,这种网上作弊活动至少还会持续一段时间。我们这些作弊者已经把网络桥牌搞得乌烟瘴气了,就让我们把它清理干净重新开始。让我们尽量把网络桥牌的操守保持得更接近真实的比赛。为了我自己和大家:我希望现在还不算太晚。
发表于 2020-7-18 22:55:55 | 显示全部楼层
百度翻译是个好东西,调整一下更接近我们的语言
发表于 2020-7-24 09:25:44 | 显示全部楼层
5楼的翻译不错!谢谢!原翻译让人不懂。
发表于 2020-8-20 08:25:37 | 显示全部楼层
5楼的翻译不错!谢谢!原翻译让人不懂。
发表于 2020-9-9 22:20:41 | 显示全部楼层
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